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9/10/2017 7:17:55 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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and dating?

Obligated:
require or compel (someone) to undertake a legal or moral duty.
An act or course of action to which a person is morally or legally bound; a duty or commitment.

I say yes.

Especially when everyone says if you don't want sex don't go in a relationship.

That means in relationships you are obligated or obliged to have sex.

Do men use relationships and dating as a way to oblige women to have sex with them?

I know 1 guy who tried that with me.

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9/10/2017 8:22:48 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
_april67
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I don't think when dating a person is obligated to do so.

When in a relationship it shouldn't be an obligation. Both should want to & enjoy it. It's usually a normal part of a relationship.

9/10/2017 10:10:14 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

playingindirt
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in a relationship I don't see it as an obligation. I see it as a pleasure. if you don't feel that way about him why would you be there?



[Edited 9/10/2017 10:10:36 AM ]

9/10/2017 10:19:18 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
vizz87
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Of course they are.

9/10/2017 10:29:56 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

xman379
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Quote from playingindirt:
in a relationship I don't see it as an obligation. I see it as a pleasure. if you don't feel that way about him why would you be there?


Exactly.

9/10/2017 10:33:59 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

easttowest72
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They definitely do. I have some guys trying to lock down a relationship before they ever meet me.

9/10/2017 10:35:42 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from easttowest72:
They definitely do. I have some guys trying to lock down a relationship before they ever meet me.

Wow really?
Yea 2 guys tried to get me in a relationship before or after only 1 meet lol

9/10/2017 10:39:11 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sinceresammy
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I believe in the time honored principle that all men should follow, Dinner & a d*ck.

9/10/2017 10:54:38 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

M4mischief
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Quote from playingindirt:
in a relationship I don't see it as an obligation. I see it as a pleasure. if you don't feel that way about him why would you be there?




This....

9/10/2017 11:14:50 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

xman379
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NOT ALL women are NECESSARILY OBLIGATED to have sex with a man in a relationship.

A woman can't have it both ways though. Meaning if a woman wants to be in a relationship with a man, but isn't particularly interested in the SEX aspect of it, then she must be willing to ALLOW the man to pursue SEX with another woman who is WILLING to have sex with him.

Of course, if the woman is AFRAID the man will completely end the relationship with HER in exchange for one with another woman, then there may be great difficulty with allowing him to pursue sex elsewhere.

9/10/2017 11:22:59 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from xman379:
NOT ALL women are NECESSARILY OBLIGATED to have sex with a man in a relationship.

A woman can't have it both ways though. Meaning if a woman wants to be in a relationship with a man, but isn't particularly interested in the SEX aspect of it, then she must be willing to ALLOW the man to pursue SEX with another woman who is WILLING to have sex with him.

Of course, if the woman is AFRAID the man will completely end the relationship with HER in exchange for one with another woman, then there may be great difficulty with allowing him to pursue sex elsewhere.
a man can't have it both ways either , if he wants to fvck other women then he is obliged to let her do stuff with other men, sexual or otherwise

9/10/2017 11:27:35 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
vizz87
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Sienna do u like to f**k a lot wen ur in a relationship?

9/10/2017 11:51:06 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

thechino
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Quote from playingindirt:
in a relationship I don't see it as an obligation. I see it as a pleasure. if you don't feel that way about him/her why would you be there?


^^^ This.

9/10/2017 12:52:29 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

enigmaathand
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Quote from sinceresammy:
I believe in the time honored principle that all men should follow, Dinner & a d*ck.
The four "F"s work much better:

Find 'em
Feed 'em
F**k 'em
Forget about 'em



9/10/2017 12:52:59 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

thechino
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9/10/2017 1:56:01 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

Suzhi
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Why would I have a relationship with a woman that doesn't put out??

Oh I know, so I can drive her around, loan her money, and nurse my blue balls..What fun that would be.....

9/10/2017 2:00:34 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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U aren't describing a relationship, are you?

9/10/2017 2:03:16 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

Suzhi
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I don't let myself be put in the friend zone...It's just common sense..

9/10/2017 2:13:35 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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I wasn't implying friendship.

9/10/2017 3:17:28 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

packersbabe920
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I wouldn't say obligated, we do it cause we like it, we enjoyed it

9/10/2017 8:08:35 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

driver406
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No, that's why she has all those black STUDS on the side! The bf is just there to blame any pregnancy on and to take responsibility for the baby even though it isn't his. Wouldn't a woman gladly burn in hell for eternity rather than have sex with her by/husband?

9/10/2017 10:00:45 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

neal356
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Sienna, I think you need to define the relationship. Me personally, I think demanding sex is rather rude. There is an art to seduction, should be fun for both. The chase is most of the fun...well, maybe not most...let me get back with you on that...

9/10/2017 10:35:07 PMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

truly000
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Why would any one feel that it's an obligation?
If you're in love, I'd think it would be a tendency .
You would, by nature; desire to have sex with him/her.



[Edited 9/10/2017 10:37:59 PM ]

9/11/2017 2:05:25 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from neal356:
Sienna, I think you need to define the relationship. Me personally, I think demanding sex is rather rude. There is an art to seduction, should be fun for both. The chase is most of the fun...well, maybe not most...let me get back with you on that...

Oh you are right.
It's probably because guys are bad at seduction and lazy lol

9/11/2017 2:48:57 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

enigmaathand
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Oh you are right.
It's probably because guys are bad at seduction and lazy lol
Get a Scorpio. We love to be the seducer, BUT you better actually be into being seduced. We are emphatic and receptive, which means if you're not into it, we will sense that and know you aren't enjoying it.

9/11/2017 2:53:52 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cavie59
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
and dating?

Obligated:
require or compel (someone) to undertake a legal or moral duty.
An act or course of action to which a person is morally or legally bound; a duty or commitment.

I say yes.

Especially when everyone says if you don't want sex don't go in a relationship.

That means in relationships you are obligated or obliged to have sex.

Do men use relationships and dating as a way to oblige women to have sex with them?

I know 1 guy who tried that with me.


When has a woman ever felt "OBLIGATED" to have sex with a man. MOST(not all) women use sex to get a man to marry them, then once they have that ring, the sex decreases 50 fold.

9/11/2017 2:55:23 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cavie59
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Quote from Suzhi:
Why would I have a relationship with a woman that doesn't put out??

Oh I know, so I can drive her around, loan her money, and nurse my blue balls..What fun that would be.....


Hey, that sounds a lot like marriage.

9/11/2017 3:31:13 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from enigmaathand:
Get a Scorpio. We love to be the seducer, BUT you better actually be into being seduced. We are emphatic and receptive, which means if you're not into it, we will sense that and know you aren't enjoying it.

I'll believe it when I see it.
It always just seems like they do whatever they want without really giving much of a crap about how I feel. Like I'm just along for a ride that I want to get off lol. Or like I'm some sorta doll, especially with that last guy. I'll leave it at that cos I can't be fked to whine about my past experiences further.
They always treat me like I'm a dead piece of meat, there for their entertainment basically.

9/11/2017 4:04:53 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

dantana77
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I only read the forum title. If she considers sex obligatory the relationship is all but dead. However, While i know women i truly enjoy hanging out with, if the p*ssy didn't exist we'd have no use for women. We enjoy hanging out with our buddies too

9/11/2017 6:26:36 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

inkedandsassyy
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Well part of a relationship is sexual .. Im probably over sexed but never had complaints. ..

9/11/2017 6:28:38 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
kungfu_candy
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I don't think it's fair to say that men are using relationships to get sex when so many women with lack of self respect give it to them outside of one.

If it took relationships for men to get their d*cks wet, they'd try much harder and women would be happy with men going along with the illusion of love.

I think IN a relationship is where you're SUPPOSED to have sex.

9/11/2017 6:29:19 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

inkedandsassyy
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I forgot to answer in my earlier post lol. . Not obligated but I cant see why they wouldn't want it ...



[Edited 9/11/2017 6:32:21 AM ]

9/11/2017 6:59:36 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

easttowest72
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Just a few minutes ago I got an email. His profile said not looking for a commitment. I just deleted his message. A couple minutes later he sends me a message that his profile needs work and he is looking for a relationship and someone to take care of.

9/11/2017 7:07:49 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from easttowest72:
Just a few minutes ago I got an email. His profile said not looking for a commitment. I just deleted his message. A couple minutes later he sends me a message that his profile needs work and he is looking for a relationship and someone to take care of.

Haha that's funny. Iv ignored heaps of guys who's profile says not looking for commitment.

9/11/2017 7:12:41 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

easttowest72
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Yep and it doesn't take long for them to change their profile. All of a sudden they are looking for a soul mate ready to settle down and get married

9/11/2017 7:25:31 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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haha so true. God they are all the same.

9/11/2017 7:35:30 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

Suzhi
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Well this thread sure didn't have man bashing written all over it...

9/11/2017 7:37:46 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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It's the title.

Women are not obligated to "Have se.x with men IN relationships".

9/11/2017 7:53:27 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

easttowest72
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I don't think Its male bashing. I think guys are learning that do you want to cuddle isn't working. Now they want forever...very quickly lol.

9/11/2017 7:57:02 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
_april67
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Quote from cavie59:
When has a woman ever felt "OBLIGATED" to have sex with a man. MOST(not all) women use sex to get a man to marry them, then once they have that ring, the sex decreases 50 fold.

Sex shouldn't be an obligation. It should be something she & he WANT to do & enjoy doing.

9/11/2017 8:02:05 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
kungfu_candy
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"Man Bashing" According to'Men'

1.Women directing attention to:

a. lies
b. infidelity
c. disrespect
d. aggression/hostility

2. Women who quietly live their lives happy without d*ck

3. Women who don't want the d*ck

4. Women who refuse to be reduced to cum buckets

5. Women with standards

6. Women who like women

7. Women with better education/jobs/pay

8. Women who wear makeup

9. Women who don't wear makeup.

10. Women.



[Edited 9/11/2017 8:02:20 AM ]

9/11/2017 8:15:47 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
"Man Bashing" According to'Men'

1.Women directing attention to:

a. lies
b. infidelity
c. disrespect
d. aggression/hostility

2. Women who quietly live their lives happy without d*ck

3. Women who don't want the d*ck

4. Women who refuse to be reduced to cum buckets

5. Women with standards

6. Women who like women

7. Women with better education/jobs/pay

8. Women who wear makeup

9. Women who don't wear makeup.

10. Women.


You forgot:

11. WOMEN WHO WEAR WHAT THEY WANT

12. WOMEN WHO WEAR PANTIES WHEN THEY WANT

9/11/2017 8:18:53 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

Suzhi
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
"Man Bashing" According to'Men'

1.Women directing attention to:

a. lies
b. infidelity
c. disrespect
d. aggression/hostility

2. Women who quietly live their lives happy without d*ck

3. Women who don't want the d*ck

4. Women who refuse to be reduced to cum buckets

5. Women with standards

6. Women who like women

7. Women with better education/jobs/pay

8. Women who wear makeup

9. Women who don't wear makeup.

10. Women.



Rut roe, I've poked a hornet's nest...

9/11/2017 8:20:57 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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You're a man, aren't you?

9/11/2017 8:22:22 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

Suzhi
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Yeah, last time I felt..

9/11/2017 8:32:02 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from easttowest72:
I don't think Its male bashing. I think guys are learning that do you want to cuddle isn't working. Now they want forever...very quickly lol.

True. They lie a lot as well saying they love you. Like idk whats worse, them lying about it or just not saying it. Had both.

I think in situations like that, it's actions that speak louder than words. Cos they can try to be fake as much as they want but if their actions don't match up with what they say it's just a load of BS.



9/11/2017 8:32:48 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

stopsweatingme
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Aww, that looks homo.

9/11/2017 8:37:48 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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I Remember


Moi?



9/11/2017 8:45:51 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
kungfu_candy
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Quote from Suzhi:
Rut roe, I've poked a hornet's nest...






That's one of the sweetest things I've ever been called.

9/11/2017 8:48:14 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

Suzhi
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Men are becoming lap dogs in this country.. There is no relationship without sex.. Bottom line...

9/11/2017 8:49:39 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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Having said that, Kin....what sex are you?

9/11/2017 9:03:51 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

Suzhi
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Quote from cupocheer:
Having said that, Kin....what sex are you?


Pic sent...

9/11/2017 9:05:15 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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WooHoo

The doctor did a great job.

What sex were you before?

9/11/2017 9:34:13 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

neal356
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Quote from inkedandsassyy:
Well part of a relationship is sexual .. Im probably over sexed but never had complaints. ..


i'd like to give a second opinion..

9/11/2017 9:38:18 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

neal356
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Quote from easttowest72:
Just a few minutes ago I got an email. His profile said not looking for a commitment. I just deleted his message. A couple minutes later he sends me a message that his profile needs work and he is looking for a relationship and someone to take care of.


I get the impression you don't need someone to take care of you.

9/11/2017 9:39:28 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

easttowest72
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9/11/2017 9:41:47 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

neal356
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Hi, didn't know you are on!! LOL

9/11/2017 11:20:52 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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Id rather have a monogomous relationshio with a single, available male.

9/11/2017 11:22:04 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 

stopsweatingme
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I'm available, but limited at your discretion.

9/11/2017 11:29:33 AMAre women obligated to have se.x with men in relationships? 
cupocheer
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What if I wasn't in the mood?