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9/4/2017 4:29:24 PMMerchant Maureen 

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"A merchant maureen is when a lady drops her anchor for a man's wallet in her own desires..."
— Marc Rudov, No Harmony Without Equality




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9/4/2017 6:30:02 PMMerchant Maureen 

enigmaathand
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
"A merchant maureen is when a lady drops her anchor for a man's wallet in her own desires..."
— Marc Rudov, No Harmony Without Equality
Translation: Gold Digger

9/4/2017 7:33:19 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from enigmaathand:
Translation: Gold Digger
exactly

9/5/2017 1:06:46 AMMerchant Maureen 

inkedandsassyy
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Op have you had all these money grabbing women you make threads about ....If so you are a extreamly bad picker

9/5/2017 1:18:58 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from inkedandsassyy:
Op have you had all these money grabbing women you make threads about ....If so you are a extreamly bad picker
lol who said it was all about me....and nobody said you have to read my threads....not all my thread are about the women

9/5/2017 1:20:20 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dark_gable0585:
lol who said it was all about me....and nobody said you have to read my threads....not all my thread are about the women
Dont be so serious I was kidding ..just having a laugh

9/5/2017 5:38:04 AMMerchant Maureen 

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The United Snakes of Aherica is full of these "Off Shore" b*tches trying to turn bank and gov't building parking lots into Safe Harbors.

Smelling like FISH!

9/5/2017 5:45:28 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from inkedandsassyy:
Dont be so serious I was kidding ..just having a laugh


Hey I no!

But you gotta understand that there are a growing multitude of a**holes who's only purpose here is to childishly annoy the adults by making everything they post about the OP.

Just thought I'd share that in case you didn't know.

9/5/2017 5:49:22 AMMerchant Maureen 
cupocheer
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Aren't you giving, either them or yourself, too much importance in believing that way?

9/5/2017 5:59:28 AMMerchant Maureen 

enigmaathand
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Quote from inkedandsassyy:
Op have you had all these money grabbing women you make threads about ....If so you are a extreamly bad picker
So, women don't feel it is right for us to blame THEM, for picking "bad" men, BUT are the first to blame US when it comes to picking "bad" women.

Hypocritical narcissism at its finest. Feminism wouldn't have it any other way.

http://www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/08/women-associate-money-love-men-link-it-freedom

"Researchers surveyed MORE THAN 100,000 INDIVIDUALS in the United Kingdom about their feelings when it comes to the big bucks. Some questions asked if participants buy things when they feel anxious, bored, or upset, whereas others revolved around guilt, pride, or power in regard to money. There are four main categories that we associate with the content of our bank accounts, the researchers say: security, power, love, and freedom. After analyzing the survey results, psychologists split the difference, showing that FEMALES, on average, were about TWICE AS LIKELY TO ASSOCIATE CASH FLOW WITH LOVE and emotion, whereas men were about twice as likely to see money as a sign of power and freedom, though the feelings were not mutually exclusive."

9/5/2017 6:01:04 AMMerchant Maureen 

enigmaathand
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Now, what MEN around here, are really surprised by that research result?

I know I am certainly not surprised by it.......

How about you, Dark?

Any shock and awe, that WOMEN associate MONEY WITH LOVE?

9/5/2017 6:30:41 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from enigmaathand:
So, women don't feel it is right for us to blame THEM, for picking "bad" men, BUT are the first to blame US when it comes to "

For fark sake, What I said was meant light heartedly ..lighten up ..

9/5/2017 6:32:27 AMMerchant Maureen 

inkedandsassyy
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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
Hey I no!

But you gotta understand that there are a growing multitude of a**holes who's only purpose here is to childishly annoy the adults by making everything they post about the OP.

Just thought I'd share that in case you didn't know.


9/5/2017 9:22:32 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from inkedandsassyy:
Dont be so serious I was kidding ..just having a laugh
who said I was lol

9/5/2017 4:42:02 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Well, well, well

9/5/2017 4:58:07 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from packersbabe920:
Well, well, well


9/5/2017 5:00:31 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dark_gable0585:





9/5/2017 11:13:05 PMMerchant Maureen 

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9/7/2017 2:26:56 AMMerchant Maureen 
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
"A merchant maureen is when a lady drops her anchor for a man's wallet in her own desires..."
— Marc Rudov, No Harmony Without Equality


Sounds like my ex-wife.

9/9/2017 12:29:37 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from cavie59:
Sounds like my ex-wife.


9/9/2017 1:10:48 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from cavie59:
Sounds like ANYwife.
Fixed

9/9/2017 1:16:15 PMMerchant Maureen 

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9/12/2017 1:30:23 PMMerchant Maureen 

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9/12/2017 10:53:58 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from enigmaathand:
Now, what MEN around here, are really surprised by that research result?

I know I am certainly not surprised by it.......

How about you, Dark?

Any shock and awe, that WOMEN associate MONEY WITH LOVE?


Oh HELL YEAH!!!

Women use "money" as a measure of everything manly from if or how he care about HER, emotional depth, viability, his fatherhood, compatibility, morally, his worth as a human and if he deserve to live!!!

But hide behind feminism to avoid their REAL God Given responsibility. But don't mind crying out "but I'm a WOMAN" for some convenient entitlement.

9/12/2017 11:36:37 PMMerchant Maureen 
gotheon123
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I've dated men that made a lot less money than me and I've dated men that make a lot more money than me and everything in between. For me, it has always been more important what a significant other does with their money more than what they make. Just because someone makes a lot of money, doesn't mean that he or she is financially secure. I would rather be with a man who makes less, but is financially responsible than a man who makes more, but lives above his means and is in credit card debt.

I, personally, wouldn't do well with a commission job even if I made more money than I do now. I like knowing what I can count on. I also won't take big risks with my money. Which means I'll probably never strike it rich on some investment, but it means I'll also never lose it all either.


I don't think women associate money with love, I think they associate it with stability and I think they value that stability when raising a family.


Gold diggers certainly don't associate money with love, they aren't in it for love.

9/13/2017 6:04:29 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from inkedandsassyy:
Op have you had all these money grabbing women you make threads about ....If so you are a extreamly bad picker


I refuse to believe that you have had those tits for this many years, and yet still refuse to acknowledge the doors they have opened for you, nor the prizes they have attained for you.

9/13/2017 6:33:43 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from gotheon123:
I've dated men that made a lot less money than me and I've dated men that make a lot more money than me and everything in between. For me, it has always been more important what a significant other does with their money more than what they make. Just because someone makes a lot of money, doesn't mean that he or she is financially secure. I would rather be with a man who makes less, but is financially responsible than a man who makes more, but lives above his means and is in credit card debt.

I, personally, wouldn't do well with a commission job even if I made more money than I do now. I like knowing what I can count on. I also won't take big risks with my money. Which means I'll probably never strike it rich on some investment, but it means I'll also never lose it all either.


I don't think women associate money with love, I think they associate it with stability and I think they value that stability when raising a family.


Gold diggers certainly don't associate money with love, they aren't in it for love.




9/13/2017 9:51:53 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from gotheon123:
I've dated men that made a lot less money than me and I've dated men that make a lot more money than me and everything in between. For me, it has always been more important what a significant other does with their money more than what they make. Just because someone makes a lot of money, doesn't mean that he or she is financially secure. I would rather be with a man who makes less, but is financially responsible than a man who makes more, but lives above his means and is in credit card debt.

I, personally, wouldn't do well with a commission job even if I made more money than I do now. I like knowing what I can count on. I also won't take big risks with my money. Which means I'll probably never strike it rich on some investment, but it means I'll also never lose it all either.


I don't think women associate money with love, I think they associate it with stability and I think they value that stability when raising a family.


Gold diggers certainly don't associate money with love, they aren't in it for love.
you dated men with less money then you are the exception to the rule but it only shows that you just one person

9/13/2017 9:56:18 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from gotheon123:
I've dated men that made a lot less money than me and I've dated men that make a lot more money than me and everything in between. For me, it has always been more important what a significant other does with their money more than what they make. Just because someone makes a lot of money, doesn't mean that he or she is financially secure. I would rather be with a man who makes less, but is financially responsible than a man who makes more, but lives above his means and is in credit card debt.

I, personally, wouldn't do well with a commission job even if I made more money than I do now. I like knowing what I can count on. I also won't take big risks with my money. Which means I'll probably never strike it rich on some investment, but it means I'll also never lose it all either.


I don't think women associate money with love, I think they associate it with stability and I think they value that stability when raising a family.


Gold diggers certainly don't associate money with love, they aren't in it for love.
well to this generation of women today.....i beg to differ

9/13/2017 11:06:27 AMMerchant Maureen 

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I can see how someone who is a financial disaster and can't get a date would think Its all about money. But if that was true, their are plenty of guys flashing money trying to get dates and not succeeding. Most women dont want a smoker or drug addict but just because he is addiction free doesn't make it love.

9/13/2017 11:40:35 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from easttowest72:
I can see how someone who is a financial disaster and can't get a date would think Its all about money. But if that was true, their are plenty of guys flashing money trying to get dates and not succeeding. Most women dont want a smoker or drug addict but just because he is addiction free doesn't make it love.
at the same time they have babies with smokers and drug dealers...so your point is flawed

9/13/2017 2:38:48 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Only the low class. Probably smokers and druggies themselves.

9/13/2017 4:53:54 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dark_gable0585:
at the same time they have babies with smokers and drug dealers...so your point is flawed
aaaaaannnnnddddd crickets!!!!

9/13/2017 7:18:05 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from easttowest72:
Only the low class. Probably smokers and druggies themselves.
I said do some research



[Edited 9/13/2017 7:18:17 PM ]

9/14/2017 4:14:29 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from enigmaathand:
aaaaaannnnnddddd crickets!!!!
she is mad because I don't follow the 11th commandment

9/14/2017 5:59:20 PMMerchant Maureen 

enigmaathand
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
she is mad because I don't follow the 11th commandment
Oh, you mean the Commandment of Feminism:

Thou shalt bow and be ruled by the woman?



9/14/2017 8:26:31 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from enigmaathand:
Oh, you mean the Commandment of Feminism:

Thou shalt bow and be ruled by the woman?

no the other one....thou shall not talk about bad things that women do

9/14/2017 10:48:31 PMMerchant Maureen 

enigmaathand
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You are right, my mistake. I was thinking about Commandment #12, again....

9/15/2017 12:13:29 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from enigmaathand:
You are right, my mistake. I was thinking about Commandment #12, again....


9/15/2017 5:47:57 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Some women smoke and do drugs so being with a man who does these things aren't a problem. Like I said they are low class. Doing drugs can be hid for a while.

9/15/2017 9:24:30 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from easttowest72:
Some women smoke and do drugs so being with a man who does these things aren't a problem. Like I said they are low class. Doing drugs can be hid for a while.
lol like I said....your statement is flawed

9/15/2017 4:34:02 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dark_gable0585:
no the other one....thou shall not talk about bad things that women do


That's chapter 2 verse 6 in the "Book of B*tches!" Which is written in the "Satanic Britannia" vol. #1.

9/15/2017 4:57:05 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
That's chapter 2 verse 6 in the "Book of B*tches!" Which is written in the "Satanic Britannia" vol. #1.


9/15/2017 4:58:32 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dark_gable0585:
lol like I said....your statement is flawed


Easttowesthell is a f**king Satan worshipper who hates and resent men for God putting us in charge.

So like the demon she is... she spends her every existing moments thinking of HOW to beat, bash, defeat, emasculate and destroy men.

Which is why she's a bitter, old, dilapidated, crumb snatching how looking for a free meal and child support to live off of.

SHIT! Did I say something wrong??

9/15/2017 6:54:27 PMMerchant Maureen 

pickygirl72
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Seriously where do men find these women. In all my years of having gal pals none of them ever where gold diggers, merchant maureens or even cheaters.

I suggest men look down diffetent paths to find quality women.

9/15/2017 7:22:48 PMMerchant Maureen 

lucky_1million
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I have 1 friend who falls into this category.

She's a pretty blonde with blue eyes.

However, she usually doesn't drop her anchor, because most of the time she doesn't have to.

She gets away with a ton of crap, more than just this.




Oh, she also has a really nice job too.

I think a lot of men think they are getting a classy, quality lady when they first meet her, but she's a user..



[Edited 9/15/2017 7:25:04 PM ]

9/15/2017 8:59:59 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
That's chapter 2 verse 6 in the "Book of B*tches!" Which is written in the "Satanic Britannia" vol. #1.
The sarcasm in this thread is hilarious.....

9/15/2017 9:05:31 PMMerchant Maureen 

enigmaathand
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Quote from pickygirl72:
Seriously where do men find these women. In all my years of having gal pals none of them ever where gold diggers, merchant maureens or even cheaters.

I suggest men look down diffetent paths to find quality women.
How can you know all these "high quality" women, that are somehow single?

Here is why I am asking. I have had 8 serious relationships, and like 20+ fwbs over the many years.

I have seen behavioral patterns with most of those females, particularly when you fall flat on your face and tikes get tough.

Ironically, the one that stuck by me during one of those periods of my life, is one that was never "supposed" to, and the ones that "should" have bolted first chance they got.

A man will always remember and cherish a woman, that stands by his side, when he has been knocked down in life.

Anyone can stay with you when times are great.

If women aren't viewed as valuable to men, there is many reasons for this, on both men and women.

Maybe it is environmental. Where I live, most of them are very self-centered, lack compassion, and use men like am ATM machine.

And then the "nice, quality" women wind up getting these broken men, because they do have compassion and are very caring, which leads to a very destructive cycle in the relationships and a lot of broken homes.

9/15/2017 11:29:24 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from pickygirl72:
Seriously where do men find these women. In all my years of having gal pals none of them ever where gold diggers, merchant maureens or even cheaters.

I suggest men look down diffetent paths to find quality women.
seriously why females who used men for their own purpose tried to use shame tactics like
"Where do men find these women"
Were you one of those who use her husband's benefits instead of your own and divorce him after that

9/15/2017 11:30:54 PMMerchant Maureen 

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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
Easttowesthell is a f**king Satan worshipper who hates and resent men for God putting us in charge.

So like the demon she is... she spends her every existing moments thinking of HOW to beat, bash, defeat, emasculate and destroy men.

Which is why she's a bitter, old, dilapidated, crumb snatching how looking for a free meal and child support to live off of.

SHIT! Did I say something wrong??
you described her to a tee....i would have said a old bag who is way past her expiration date

10/20/2017 10:33:22 AMMerchant Maureen 

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Never did figure what the hell this thread was about, but I brought it back from page 3! THERE! Who says I don't care about HIS personal posts! But he's still insulted so I'm still a white, racist, muthafuker! Guess he showed me.