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1/21/2012 9:30:17 AMJust wondering 
virgostoner
Hawthorne, CA
40, joined Oct. 2011


Do you think that success depends on the site, or the people? Personally, I think it's up to the people but I've seen how others swear it's this site.



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1/21/2012 10:34:45 AMJust wondering 

pike45
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,597)
Omaha, NE
64, joined Feb. 2009


I cant answer that one.

1/21/2012 12:50:34 PMJust wondering 

keepslowprofile
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,538)
Moose Lake, MN
98, joined Nov. 2011


Both and the area you live in.




Hi Pike

1/21/2012 2:01:54 PMJust wondering 

topwench
Pacoima, CA
38, joined Jan. 2012


Its the people. Either they want what is available or they'll blame the maufacturer for their blatent incompentency... if they cant find love, its because theyre looking in the wrong place.... if they cant find sex its because they arent taking the propositions offered to them, and if they cant find happiness and are looking for it here, THAT EXPLAINS EVERYTHING!

1/21/2012 2:04:51 PMJust wondering 
sweetnspicy23
Carson, CA
36, joined Jan. 2012


I think its both in a way someone can come from a poor background or experience hardships and can rise above the negative and become successful. But if you are born privleged then I believe many are handed success to them. I agree it depends in the environment you are surrounded by. I am studyin sociology and I am taking social problems class so we discuss many factors that contribute to topics such as this. There are thos of course who come from upper class backgrounds but also help others.

1/21/2012 10:48:43 PMJust wondering 
virgostoner
Hawthorne, CA
40, joined Oct. 2011


Quote from topwench:
Its the people. Either they want what is available or they'll blame the maufacturer for their blatent incompentency... if they cant find love, its because theyre looking in the wrong place.... if they cant find sex its because they arent taking the propositions offered to them, and if they cant find happiness and are looking for it here, THAT EXPLAINS EVERYTHING!


Yea see, that's what I was thinking. Of course I'm always open to new ideas and opinions, but with this one I'm thinking it does depend on the people. This site allows for messages and profiles, same as most other social sites, so there's really not much to target when arguing the opposing side to the discussion.

1/21/2012 10:56:04 PMJust wondering 
virgostoner
Hawthorne, CA
40, joined Oct. 2011


Quote from sweetnspicy23:
I think its both in a way someone can come from a poor background or experience hardships and can rise above the negative and become successful. But if you are born privleged then I believe many are handed success to them. I agree it depends in the environment you are surrounded by. I am studyin sociology and I am taking social problems class so we discuss many factors that contribute to topics such as this. There are thos of course who come from upper class backgrounds but also help others.


I'm sorry, I think I should have worded that differently. I meant success in finding a partner, lover, significant other, etc. But you do bring up an interesting point. Success in general is indeed affected by many factors. Personality, genetics, environment, the list goes on and on. People, regardless of social and economic status, are all different. As you said there are those upper class citizens who actually help and contribute to the well being of others, and there are those who struggle financially, but still don't understand or sympathize with the hardships of others.

1/22/2012 3:15:31 PMJust wondering 
manfre24
Pearland, TX
28, joined Jan. 2012


To me I think find success on this website not you its the ppl cuzz some ppl judge ppl on the looks but that's ok what can we do about it I'm not saying everyone does but what can we do about it I'm not saying I don't cuzz but the only reason I do that cuzz you probly not my type I like for girl to response me bacc an say your not my type oh well I tryed I would be kool with that haha

1/23/2012 5:39:59 AMJust wondering 
virgostoner
Hawthorne, CA
40, joined Oct. 2011


Quote from manfre24:
To me I think find success on this website not you its the ppl cuzz some ppl judge ppl on the looks but that's ok what can we do about it I'm not saying everyone does but what can we do about it I'm not saying I don't cuzz but the only reason I do that cuzz you probly not my type I like for girl to response me bacc an say your not my type oh well I tryed I would be kool with that haha


Yea exactly! I can accept not being someone's type. But why can't they reply and just say so. I've had females "wink" at me on here. But when I send a message introducing myself, they read it and that's it.