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3/11/2017 1:07:02 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Austin, TX
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Everyday I see this woman, and she wears a sweater. Yesterday I saw her without a sweater and how gross she looks. All the hanging skin. She had a gastric bypass(cosmetic only). Looks like she has no money to get the extra skin cut off.

She is always sick. Can't eat solid food.

For those who had any extensive cosmetic surgery, how shameful and foolish do you feel? (Medical reasons exempt).

Do you regret? Maybe being chubby wasn't so bad.

Share your experiences and thoughts.

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3/11/2017 1:11:01 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

stanleyzee
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Careful Lisa,

Or u might experience such

3/11/2017 1:13:36 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
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I never had any cosmetic surgery, but a few times a year I turn into a werewolf at night and it last till almost dawn.

Hey, its kinda cool having those super human powers and etc.

But, I'll admit the next day, it seem kind of strange howling at the moon for that long.

3/11/2017 1:15:00 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

stanleyzee
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Bum

3/11/2017 1:17:30 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

yetskimama
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Quote from missamicable:
Everyday I see this woman, and she wears a sweater. Yesterday I saw her without a sweater and how gross she looks. All the hanging skin. She had a gastric bypass(cosmetic only). Looks like she has no money to get the extra skin cut off.

She is always sick. Can't eat solid food.

For those who had any extensive cosmetic surgery, how shameful and foolish do you feel? (Medical reasons exempt).

Do you regret? Maybe being chubby wasn't so bad.

Share your experiences and thoughts.




I have watched .. MY 600 pound Life a few times. What can one say??? A Someone reported that many of the surgery's a paid by a Insurancebut it's stated the cost it's over a$ million

3/11/2017 1:18:09 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

bumblebee7
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Zee....



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3/11/2017 1:21:07 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
cupocheer
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Assumption, IL
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If the person was really fattttt all that extra flab can be used as extra blankets in the winter.

If it's a woman the titsacs can be used as a muffler or decorative scarf.

yo.. It's a win-win.

3/11/2017 1:25:58 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

russellb1
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Brewster, NY
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Quote from missamicable:
Everyday I see this woman, and she wears a sweater. Yesterday I saw her without a sweater and how gross she looks. All the hanging skin. She had a gastric bypass(cosmetic only). Looks like she has no money to get the extra skin cut off.

She is always sick. Can't eat solid food.

For those who had any extensive cosmetic surgery, how shameful and foolish do you feel? (Medical reasons exempt).

Do you regret? Maybe being chubby wasn't so bad.

Share your experiences and thoughts.


So Zelda lives in yer hometown...

Interesting...

3/11/2017 1:26:48 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
thread_killer
Over 2,000 Posts (2,604)
Stockbridge, GA
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Fat chicks is why muslims
invented the burqa.

3/11/2017 1:30:16 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

countryladypoet
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I didnt know that thread

3/11/2017 1:32:26 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

sddnly_snoozin
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Staffordshire
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How foolish should someone feel for trying to lose weight and improve their life?

You cannot win in this forum if you are overweight. Simple as that.

How foolish do you feel bashing someone that tried?

3/11/2017 2:27:33 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
woniota
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Jacksonville, FL
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I just don't make fun or cut down people on the way they look, plain and simple.

Judge not lest ye be judged yourself.

3/11/2017 2:32:55 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
How foolish should someone feel for trying to lose weight and improve their life?

You cannot win in this forum if you are overweight. Simple as that.

How foolish do you feel bashing someone that tried?[/quote

It's not bashing. It's regret, shame, feeling foolish if you look horrible after cosmetic surgery.

I bet those people were beautiful before the excess hanging skins.

3/11/2017 2:33:16 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

M4mischief
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Wellllll when I lost my 500 lbs....I didn't feel foolish at all...my cats use my extra folds as a cat house...win...win....

3/11/2017 2:33:43 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

yetskimama
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Quote from woniota:
I just don't make fun or cut down people on the way they look, plain and simple.

Judge not lest ye be judged yourself.



Have a super weekend, lots of Sunshine and beautiful Weather here:hi:

3/11/2017 2:34:35 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

devil_z
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The Rock, GA
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A guy at work had that done some years ago.

He gained it all back and more I was told.

Didn't think that shit could even happen.





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3/11/2017 2:36:46 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Quote from woniota:
I just don't make fun or cut down people on the way they look, plain and simple.

Judge not lest ye be judged yourself.


That's respect of they were born that way.

If they spent thousands to look ugly and dispisable then that's another story.

3/11/2017 2:40:10 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

inde_5
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Bonaire, GA
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Quote from cupocheer:
If the person was really fattttt all that extra flab can be used as extra blankets in the winter.

If it's a woman the titsacs can be used as a muffler or decorative scarf.

yo.. It's a win-win.




I wish more people from your generation..were this up to date with thier thinking..or creativness..

3/11/2017 2:44:33 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

Helly_Orchid
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Calls other people gross. Afraid to put up a pic.





Yeah, this bullshit is totally logical.

3/11/2017 2:46:28 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
cupocheer
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I cut my teeth on barbed wire.

Bet that's something you didn't know about me.

3/11/2017 3:01:17 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
thread_killer
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Treadmill

3/11/2017 3:04:29 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
Zelda88
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I had a tummy tuck a few yrs ago , and it was one of the greatest things I did

With less fat(estrogen) in my body, my metabolism sped up and resulted in more weight loss.

Clothes fit better

Higher metabolism


No shame or foolishness at all



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3/11/2017 3:09:00 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

playingindirt
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Eugene, OR
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Everyday I see this woman, and she wears a sweater. Yesterday I saw her without a sweater and how gross she looks. All the hanging skin. She had a gastric bypass(cosmetic only). Looks like she has no money to get the extra skin cut off.

She is always sick. Can't eat solid food.
............................

your lack of compassion is disturbing.



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3/11/2017 3:11:46 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
thread_killer
Over 2,000 Posts (2,604)
Stockbridge, GA
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Fat people should be taxed, or fined,
$2. per pound, per month, that they're
overweight.

Given, the numerous health issues
caused by, or associated with, obesity...
It's only fair, that fat folks carry their
own weight, when it comes to medical
expenses.

3/11/2017 3:23:46 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
Zelda88
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How do you know it was cosmetic only? Maybe she has diabetes or heart disease.
Having the plastic surgery for the skin would be cosmetic, but still advised by many doctors.
She had to use her money for the bypass, since it WAS likely for health reasons.






Quote from missamicable:
Everyday I see this woman, and she wears a sweater. Yesterday I saw her without a sweater and how gross she looks. All the hanging skin. She had a gastric bypass(cosmetic only). Looks like she has no money to get the extra skin cut off.

She is always sick. Can't eat solid food.

For those who had any extensive cosmetic surgery, how shameful and foolish do you feel? (Medical reasons exempt).

Do you regret? Maybe being chubby wasn't so bad.

Share your experiences and thoughts.


3/11/2017 3:54:25 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
ms_Champagne
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AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
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How mean of you OPie maybe she wants to loose more weight until she has the other operations...

Quote from sddnly_snoozin:
How foolish should someone feel for trying to lose weight and improve their life?

You cannot win in this forum if you are overweight. Simple as that.

How foolish do you feel bashing someone that tried?


Best!

3/11/2017 4:15:29 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Austin, TX
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Quote from playingindirt:

your lack of compassion is disturbing.


There is no compression for her. She gets in every ones business and likes to talk down to people.

Yes, she thinks she is privileged and entitled. Yea she is one of those

3/11/2017 4:18:50 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

yetskimama
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Quote from missamicable:
There is no compression for her. She gets in every ones business and likes to talk down to people.

Yes, she thinks she is privileged and entitled. Yea she is one of those [/que]




3/11/2017 4:20:06 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
woniota
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Quote from yetskimama:
Have a super weekend, lots of Sunshine and beautiful Weather here:hi:


Can I be the only one who wants to hold Yets tight and tell her everything's going to be okay?



3/11/2017 4:24:23 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
ms_Champagne
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AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
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you not the only one woni...
sending my cyber hugs to Yets..

3/11/2017 4:43:34 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
sarahgoldsmith
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The thing is even rich women have plastic surgeries to make themselves look better. Ivanka trump without her plastic surgery would be hard to look at. All of the trump women have plastic surgeries done to their bodies. Melania & ivanna have facelifts. Ivanka has a nose job. Ivanna & Donald mixed together the kids come out odd looking. They are rich but they are not good looking.

Melania was flat chest. She has breasts implants to have breasts. She has the breasts implanted long before she met trump. She got the implants so she can work as a nude model. It was for money & to feed herself. She is from a poor family in Europe.

Ivanna aged drastically. Her face was full of old wrinkles hanging down her face before the facelift. European women aged very very quickly & very drastically. Zelda looks like mike's grandmother.

Mike looks like the big brother. He doesn't look like the dad. He looks so young. He looks good.

I am glad I don't need plastic surgery. I would discourage the women in my family, my mom & sister from getting plastic surgery. But they don't need it. They are good looking. But if I need it, or if they need it, I would be against plastic surgery for my family.

But for outsiders wanting plastic surgery, I don't care. They are brave or desperate to allow themselves to be cut up like that.

But cutting up your stomach so you will eat less, that is a sickness. Why not just choose better food to eat? Why not be more selective of the food you're eating, & what you're putting inside your body? They cut a large piece of your stomach off, so you won't feel hungry, & you will eat less. It doesn't work on many fat people, because old habits die hard. They are set in their old ways & they will still eat a lot after the surgery. After going through all that of being cut open & have your stomach cut up, you go back to eating a lot again? It's a weakness for food. They have a weakness for food, they can't stop themselves from eating. The problem is they don't like eating healthy food. They only like bad food & food that are very very fattening.

Your stomach is the size of your fist, but on fat people it's expanded to a very very large size, that is much bigger than their fist.



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3/11/2017 4:58:09 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
sarahgoldsmith
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Gastric bypass is when they cut your belly open. They cut off a large part of your stomach, so you won't feel hungry & you will eat less. It doesn't work on all fat women because old habits die hard. They still feel a very strong urge to be stuffing their face with ice cream & cheesecakes, they still feel a very strong urge to eat a lot. So having a gastric bypass doesn't work for a lot of fat women. They go back to eating a lot again. They have a very strong weakness for food, they have a very strong urge to eat a lot.

All that surgeries & having their stomach being cut up was for nothing. I don't think women like this need the surgery. They need to discipline themselves. Like wearing a rubber band to sting yourself each time you do something bad. But they need something stronger than a rubber band. They need to be smacked in the face or knocked out cold with a punch in the face each time they eat bad & fattening food. LOL

You know some people wear a rubber band on their wrist to punish themselves, each time they do something bad? They would sting themselves with a rubber band. They would pull the rubber band to snap against their wrist to sting themselves, it's a form of punishment. They are trying to punish themselves for doing something bad.

3/11/2017 5:09:00 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

Momentum_007
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“The self-righteous scream judgments against others to hide the noise of skeletons dancing in their own closets.”
- John Mark Green



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3/11/2017 5:25:30 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
mustangwriter
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Lately... In REAL life...I've been going out of my way to be kind to people; a friendly smile or a tip o' the hat. Something to try in a small way to make... someone's day.

I guess I'm just a happy-go-lucky kinda guy.

I'd rather be a reason to make someone smile than judge someone's circumstance. I find it to be most fulfilling. You should try it OP.

3/11/2017 5:31:36 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Quote from mustangwriter:
Lately... In REAL life...I've been going out of my way to be kind to people; a friendly smile or a tip o' the hat. Something to try in a small way to make... someone's day.

I guess I'm just a happy-go-lucky kinda guy.

I'd rather be a reason to make someone smile than judge someone's circumstance. I find it to be most fulfilling. You should try it OP.


I am kind and respectful to those who show me the same. People who judge me the first time they see me will be on my black list forever.

3/11/2017 5:43:25 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
Zelda88
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^^^ sure road to chronic anger, bitterness, and, apparently, meanness.


PEACE only comes through your forgiveness of others.

3/11/2017 6:18:23 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
lunaglider
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Quote from Momentum_007:
“The self-righteous scream judgments against others to hide the noise of skeletons dancing in their own closets.”
- John Mark Green



3/11/2017 6:25:07 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

Helly_Orchid
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Yet you can go around judging all you like right?




F**king hypocrite!

3/11/2017 6:34:06 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

westy602
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I'm sure if people knew what the consequences of obesity and then weight loss could be they would get off the couch, be less sedentary and eat a salad now and again...

sad for them having to hide it and feeling shamed...

3/11/2017 6:41:57 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
rocky_dennis
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I feel wonderful! I no longer need a squirrel suit, it's built in for base jumping.

3/11/2017 6:45:18 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Quote from westy602:
I'm sure if people knew what the consequences of obesity and then weight loss could be they would get off the couch, be less sedentary and eat a salad now and again...

sad for them having to hide it and feeling shamed...




The worst is when they are fighting all that demons and then be mean and judgmental to others.

Those kind I have no sympathy for them.

3/12/2017 10:33:39 AMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Quote from Zelda88:
I had a tummy tuck a few yrs ago , and it was one of the greatest things I did

With less fat(estrogen) in my body, my metabolism sped up and resulted in more weight loss.

Clothes fit better

Higher metabolism


No shame or foolishness at all


That's nice it worked out for you. You should be happy.

These people that is left with hanging skin and is still being mean to people is another story.

3/12/2017 10:50:47 AMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
queennawty
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Life is hard enough without doing all that mess to reach what others consider beautiful

3/12/2017 11:36:01 AMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

sadlsticsienna
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Well I haven't had surgery. Personally I want a jacket like Victor and Yurio from Yuri on ice lol



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3/12/2017 1:59:24 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

lsu_lsu
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Quote from Momentum_007:
“The self-righteous scream judgments against others to hide the noise of skeletons dancing in their own closets.”
- John Mark Green


This

3/12/2017 2:09:22 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

stl1
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Quote from woniota:
Can I be the only one who wants to hold Yets tight and tell her everything's going to be okay?





I want to hold Yets nekkid.

3/12/2017 2:11:43 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

stl1
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Quote from mustangwriter:
Lately... In REAL life...I've been going out of my way to be kind to people; a friendly smile or a tip o' the hat. Something to try in a small way to make... someone's day.

I guess I'm just a happy-go-lucky kinda guy.

I'd rather be a reason to make someone smile than judge someone's circumstance. I find it to be most fulfilling. You should try it OP.





What a self-delusional person.

You've already shown us who you really are.

Made me LOL.



3/12/2017 2:18:25 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
thread_killer
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Nobody wants to be seen
in public with a fat chick.

3/12/2017 3:34:51 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Quote from thread_killer:
Nobody wants to be seen
in public with a fat chick.


Do you want to be been with a chick that has excessive hanging skin?

3/12/2017 3:37:06 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

Helly_Orchid
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Get over yourself. Those people can have skin surgery.




Last I checked there wasn't a miserable douchebag surgery.

3/12/2017 3:38:33 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
vanilla_cream2
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3/12/2017 3:39:35 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
thread_killer
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Quote from missamicable:
Do you want to be been with a chick that has excessive hanging skin?


Just say no to obesity.

3/12/2017 3:42:24 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
vanilla_cream2
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3/12/2017 4:34:34 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Quote from Helly_Orchid:
Get over yourself. Those people can have skin surgery.




Last I checked there wasn't a miserable douchebag surgery.


Idiot

3/12/2017 4:39:48 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
sarahgoldsmith
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Courtney Cox from the tv show Friends said she regretted having plastic surgeries on her face. Her fans said she looks worse after the surgery. You have to be careful with plastic surgery, sometimes it will make you look even worse.

Silva told me he is getting plastic surgery to look like Mike. He is begging for money in front of the supermarket right now, to save up for that plastic surgery.

Mike is very cute, very handsome. He doesn't need plastic surgery. He looks great. He looks perfect. So handsome.


3/12/2017 4:42:34 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
TheresOnly1Mike
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Sarah I'm going to get my penis enlarged to the size of TWO beer cans instead of one

3/12/2017 4:42:34 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

Helly_Orchid
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

3/12/2017 4:50:15 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
sarahgoldsmith
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I am the biggest mike's fan. Mike is a celebrity with the ladies. LOL

Go team Mike!

3/12/2017 4:59:35 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 
missamicable
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Read the thread. I'm not belittle no one. How can one look better with all those hanging skin?

If one don't has the money to finish the job don't start it.

If people learn to love themselves then most of these cosmetic problems will not exists.



[Edited 3/12/2017 5:00:59 PM ]

3/12/2017 5:02:19 PMHow shameful and foolish do you feel? 

Helly_Orchid
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OR you could stop judging people period!